Even if your first mentorship didn't go as planned or you had to end things prematurely, it doesn't mean that the relationship was not worthwhile or that you won't have a successful mentorship in the future. Take some time to reflect on what you gained from the mentorship -- even if the only thing you learned is what not to look for in a future mentor. In general, mentorships should last between nine and 18 months, so remember to set a target date when starting a new mentorship. You can also agree on how you will end things and plan an exit strategy ahead of time. When the conversation occurs at the beginning of the relationship, it makes for a smooth and successful transition when it's time to move on.

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